Updated on July 11, 2015
Buddy-My Master: 2
Buddy is almost 2 years old now. I have been noticing for many months he has hit puberty and his hormones are overactive. He has been humping the sofa, the cushions or what ever he gets hold of . Not only that, when any guest visits us he rides on their back and enjoys himself. I don’t know about the guests, how they feel ; usually I see a smile on their face.
Now this is natural for Buddy. He is growing up and his sexuality should be respected. Had Buddy’s mother been around I don’t think she would have said, “Buddy – stop it. Gandi Baat”. Just imagine your teenage child doing all this. Oh My God!! The parents, people around watching all this, the teachers, principal would have broke all hell lose. The child would have been declared a pervert. He / she would have been taken to a counsellor. The counsellor would have sent the child to a sexologist. No way!! It’s Gandi Baat.
Our whole human race is funny. We just don’t live life in harmony with nature. We put restrictions on what is right age for a kiss or having sex. The whole society, the government, the priests and religion are against it.
In olden days there were child marriages. When the children hit puberty they were tied together. This way their sexual needs were taken care of. The couple lived in harmony with nature. There was peace and happiness.
Yes understandable. The child marriage has been abolished. There is a legal minimum age for marriage. These days the youth decides to get married late as they have to study, make their careers. All that is correct. Justified.
However, not going by the body clock, has its own problems. Teenagers watch porn, go to prostitutes; which is all termed illegal. The parents are on the watch like watch guards. The youth is distressed. I know of a child who is addicted to porn, and is so distracted, that he is unable to focus on any thing. Parents are worried and at the same time do not know how to handle the situation. They are embarrassed to discuss the problem with any one.
I am not saying behave like Buddy’s mother, but definately bring awareness to the children and the parents by giving sex education. The youth needs guidance. Sex is an energy in the body, a force which needs to be channelised.